Parenting a Boon & Pride

The birth of a baby brings happiness only when co-operation, love and understanding prevail between the parents. “God made two dolls to play with man and woman; they in turn made dolls for them to play with”
Animals do undergo reproduction; they teach their children to look out for food. They are taught to handle dangers. This process of their reproduction can neither be prevented nor postponed. As animals have no reasoning capacity, the frontal area of the brain “prefrontal cortex” is not growing. This leads to reproduction being their first emotions after maturity.
Mankind is at the heights of maturity and growth. He is well educated and has extreme reasoning power. His prefrontal cortex attains maturity between the ages of 22-24 years. Now he is in a position to control his emotions with his thoughts. This society is greatly influenced by the thoughts and vibrations of previous generations. We have to be grateful to our ancestors for the teachings imparted to us.
In spite of these regulated thoughts some of us indulge and fall a prey to our emotions and feelings of lust at a very early age and get involved in premarital sex.
They fall a prey to such relationships even before they are fully grown, not fully learnt and not settled. Where is the need for such early sex?
The estrogen and testosterone hormones cause this attraction when they are secreted into our bloodstream. But how far do we control such emotions with the help of our prefrontal cortex by our thoughts is the yardstick for our growth and mental maturity.
This care and attention given by the parents, our thoughts, guidance and support helps to regulate the ideas and emotions and makes teenagers understand the real meaning behind pre-marital sex. The more attention we offer to our kids the lesser are they prone to such negative vibrations. The more secured the children feel the safer are they from such deviations and distractions.
We should correct our children without any frustrations , be at their side during difficult situations .Give them stable affection, even if they do not live up to our expectations, our children are our treasure,. Don’t give them up no matter whatever situation occurs.
What do children expect from us? Love, Affection, Good opinions, Care and Support. It is enough if you give them this assurance. All our activities, words should be accompanied with our love. With our affection they will be in a position to grow up to be better human beings and face the challenges in life. This is the primary duty of each parent. Let us make ourselves proud parents growing up such children.