Lesson Of Responsibility

We as parents should make an effort to teach children how to be reponsible.You can teach them only when you are so.Before you take them to task for being late,make sure you are punctual.They pick up their cue from our activities , so always be an example.

Treat your child with respect, Emphasize on how his /her contributin is important for your family.Always dont keep disapproving , if their actions do not meet your expectations.Do not nag them for the slightest mistakes they commit.

Get her used to the daily routine , Gradually.Make it a step by step process.Dont make it a strenuous task for them.Do not confuse them.This systematic process will make them stable in their teens.Entrust them with little things and gradually increase their tasks.

Assigning Responsibilities- Assign a new responsibility on their birthday every year

1-2 years
learn to water plants with your supervision,throw garbage in the bin , arrange things, say "please " and "thankyou."

3-4years
making cards , clean up things,arrange articles,eat , fold their clothes,make choice of dresses,phone mannerisms,memorise numbers.

4-5years 
 Taking care of pets,get a piggy bank

5-6years
Show an interest in helping younger siblings,Squeeze out the toothpaste,Maintain tidiness in rooms,Making the bed.

6-7years
Tightening screws,fill the waterbottle,make small decisions.

8-10 years
Personal cleanliness,take care of the garden

Teenagers

stitching buttons,packing,cooking little things,selection of subjects , saving ,operating bank accounts.

Distribute the tasks,Make a chart,Assign duties to your kids,Rotate the tasks once a week.Do not overtask them,Let them specialise and Gain perfection and not lead to frustration.

Acknowledge their efforts dont give false praises.Do not redo the task,make corrections.Do not criticise , this may lead to shirking of responsibilities in adulthood.Encourage them.Give your contribution as parents.Mutual help is essential.Trust them,let them feel secure.This gives them enthuiasm,self esteem,boosts their self confidence and gives a sense of contentment.This will bring a great change in their lives no matter whatever challenges are thrown open to them.