Nobody Understands Me - III

All of us crave to see the smiling infant when we carry them or caress them. Even small kids prefer touching infants when they see them. The idea behind this blog is to emphasize on how important is parenting and how we are going to make the best use of the wonderful opportunity given to us. We can be complete parents only if we take parenting as a loving commitment and a pleasure in our wedded life, rather than a social responsibility an imposed routine in one’s life after marriage. We will have to enjoy every moment of parenting and experience the challenging moments as a process of learning.
Children grow very fast ,years will just pass by , without realizing that those years have been spent , we suddenly repent that we have not enjoyed or cherished those beautiful moments. Decision of the sex of the child is the nature’s beauty. It is not under the control of the human being. Nobody can be without getting surprised by the law of nature .The wife is promoted to the status of motherhood by the process of conceiving. She is not only raised to this level but also is accompanied by an important responsibility of parenting.
One has to start thinking about how to ensure a healthy baby. It is a combined responsibility of the father and the mother towards good parenting.
The organs of the baby is organized or formed in the first 3 months and they are capable of functioning independently in the last 3 months of pregnancy. it is very essential that the parents are in a very calm and a balanced mind during the duration for the welfare of the baby. The moments of the infant is felt during 18-20 weeks. One feels like a butterfly fluttering inside. The father is not in a position to experience this small wonder happening. These moments do not cause any irritation or suffocation it is mere pleasure.
The mother can feel the organs, at least the position of the little hands and legs and the breathing.
There is an important criterion that there should be a good relationship prevailing between the husband and wife before a child is born.A child cannot bridge the gap between the couple, this is a misconception that most couple’s think. They use the child as a tool to solve their issues. A mutual consent is required to decide in having a baby. Parents should never have the feeling that the child is an obstacle to their career, thoughts and activities. These emotions are essential and positive vibrations are a must before having a baby to ensure that the future of the baby and the parents is safe and secure.
Plan out your activities, determine the strength of your relationship, be strong in your desires, schedule your routine, organize your commitments, and estimate your strengths. Finally be prepared to receive your child into this world with dedication, love and sincerity. Make this world a wonderful place for the child to survive successfully and happily.